Building Or Rebuilding Families, Over Time
When a child enters foster care, they carry more than a suitcase. They carry questions, pain, and a history that’s often hard to put into words. For foster families, the mission isn’t just to provide safety—it’s to help a child believe in connection again.
That’s why character education matters—especially in homes shaped by healing.
At TinyTales Land, we teach 25 essential character traits. For most people, they’re nice words. But for a child in foster care, they can become lifelines.
Trust doesn’t come easy to a child who’s had it broken. It’s built slowly, through honesty and consistency. Kindness matters, even when it’s met with silence. And patience is more than a virtue—it’s a survival skill for both the parent and the child.
We often talk about helping kids “bounce back.” But real resilience isn’t about bouncing—it’s about belonging. And that belonging comes from character-rich homes—where respect is modeled, not demanded, and where empathy is practiced daily.
Character also helps foster parents.
Caring for a child who has been through trauma takes more than love—it takes resilience of your own. It takes adaptability, to respond instead of react. It takes responsibility to show up every day, even when progress is slow. And it takes courage to love a child who might not know how to love back—yet.
On the 27th of June, I’ll be joining a special podcast focused on foster care, adoption and all manner of transition for kids. The show is called the Brisko Bridge. His primary focus is on faster care and the real work of building families that heal. We’ll talk about how character traits help transform “temporary” into “transformational.” How everyday choices—like listening, affirming, and staying calm—become tools of healing.
If you’re a foster parent, you’re not just holding space. You’re holding hope. And hope, shaped by character, can change everything.
No child is too far gone. No bond too broken. With the right tools—and a lot of heart—families can be built from the inside out.
And it starts with character.



